Saturday, June 11, 2005

What's So Great About Really Deep Thoughts?

I've had time to ponder, which is something I love to do. I've pondered about many things and often my mind has drifted to the matter of love and about the girls that I've chosen to pursue.

Many guys are able to tell me specific things they like in a girl, but for the longest time I've never really been able to define one trait which all the girls that caught my attentions have possessed. This isn't a big deal, but it made me a little more curious so it became almost a matter of study for myself.

I still don't have an absolute list, but there are some things that I've discovered: Physically there are only two traits: First: I like girls that are tall. I'm tall, is just have a hard time being attracted to shorter girls. So many guys, tall or short, seem to like the shorter girls--I don't get it. Second: Their eyes captivate me. I've thought a lot about this one and remember quite well that when I've first met what I'll call Girls of Attraction, or G of A for short, I get almost confused if I look into their eyes. My mind left me for the first few real conversations I had with these girls.

As for their personality this one is a little harder for me to pinpoint, but here I go. They know what they like and they know what they can tolerate, but they don't push it on anybody. A G of A for me is easy going and loves to laugh. Probably most important is that she knows what she is capable of and strives to be able to reach even higher.

The best way I can explain it is that they amaze me and that's what breaks down the barriers of my heart.