To Every Season

As I was walking away from The Homeless, I wanted to say something. It never came out, but hopefully I'll be able to say it here and simply hope that she'll find it.

After all the years that we've known each other and all that we've been through, I do still love you. That love has changed, as I've come to find out that it always does. Love is not a stagnant thing. It doesn't stay in the same place for one's whole life. Love is always becoming weaker or stronger, and that's an amazing thing all its own.

I hope you know that I'm always here for you, even if I'm not always seen, my friends know how to find me . . . and I know that we're still friends.

Someday both of us will find a real home, maybe we'll be neighboors :D

Avoid the Line

Ursa Minor, Lumberjack, and I were having a conversation. (I love how often it's conversations that inspire my blogs.) For all I recall, this is an issue delt with a number of times over, but lets go at it again shall we.

Is there a defenition for "dating"?

When two people are said to be "dating", have they already kissed? Or is the kissing going to be happening within the next week?

Is interdigitation a requirement to achieve the state of "dating"?

If the word "exclusive" is added in, does that change the relationship or is "exclusive" already assumed with the original term "dating"?

Certainly I have my own vague defenition, but I'll wait a little while before I post my own ideas on the matter in order to keep other opinions as pure as is possible :) In other words, I don't want everyone trying to tare down my own theories.

However, one last quesion: What makes it so hard, socially, about moving out of "dating"? (Why can't people be friends after the brake up?)

Be Warned: School Can be a Killer

I have news of the great-and-almost-amazing sort. Hazel and I are still together after 6 months. After thinking about it both of us came to the decision that this relationship has lasted longer than any of our others.

As summer drew to an end both of us were a little distraught with the fact that school and work might keep us busy and apart. From what we saw there wasn't going to be any time for us to spend together through the week. (I don't know about you, but seeing a cute girl only on the weekends doesn't cut it for me.)

I decided to be selfish and took up all of her free time, but somehow Hazel still managed to pull a 4.0 . . . I'm actually a little jealous, but hey, smart girls are pretty dang hott :)

Something that is actually a little strange is the fact that now we are done with school and now we're lucky to take time to talk on the phone. It's an interesting note that families can kill a relationship quicker than school . . . go figure.